Well I have not been in a million relationships but I have been in enough to know what it takes to make it work. I have been helping couples get back together after huge break-downs for years now. I also have been helping them stay strong and happy with each other in their relationships. Here is some good ADV: No matter how old a relationship is or how apart its is, it can always stay strong an exciting as day one. All It takes is team work! Follow what I'm about to show you at the bottom with your spouse and your relationship will be the best one out there.
1. You must try connecting with each other more than just at home or on the phone. Have a connection routine! Yeah, If you have a car don't wait for him to say "lets go out" you call him and say "I'm picking you up cause we're going out". If you don't have a car ask him to take a walk and chat about your day. Doing things together and sharing little details makes it easier to discuss important stuff while connecting.
2.Try to fight less. Learn what makes him unhappy ask him about it he will be glad to tell you. (Trust me!) In fact you both should sit down grab a piece of paper and write down what don't like about each other. On top of that paper write down—DON'T FIGHT! Put your feelings down on that paper to and see if your feelings are more than the reasons you fight for. It will help you think through your anger.

